By Edmundo ramos

Following Jesus, for me, began not from a place of strength, but rather from a place of brokenness.

There was a time in my life when my marriage was going through deep difficulties, impacted by my own choices and a life lived apart from Christ. In that season, I came to the end of myself. A search for help became a sincere turning toward God as I searched for more than just answers; I was in need of repentance, healing, and a new way of life.

It was in that place I began to understand that following Jesus is not about adopting a set of beliefs, but instead about surrendering to a Person. Jesus calls us not only to believe in him, but also to follow him—to walk in his ways, to obey his teachings, and to be transformed by his life.

Jesus’ words in Luke 9:23 (ESV) became foundational for me: “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me.” The word “daily” reshaped my understanding of faith. Following Jesus is not a one-time decision—it is a daily act of surrender, a continual choosing of his way over my own.

As I began to follow Jesus more intentionally, I saw his work first in my own heart, and then in my home. My marriage began to experience restoration. This did not happen instantly, but through a process of repentance, forgiveness, humility, and faithful obedience. Following Jesus meant learning to love my wife as Christ loves, listen more, serve more, and live with integrity in the small, unseen moments.

Over time, this personal transformation became part of a larger journey of discipleship within the body of Christ. As Anabaptists, we understand that following Jesus is not only personal, it is also communal and visible. We walk together as a church, encouraging one another to live out Jesus’ teachings in practical ways: loving our neighbors, practicing forgiveness, pursuing peace, and living lives that reflect Christ.

Today, as a pastor, I have the privilege of walking alongside others in their own journey of following Jesus. I often meet people in places similar to where I once was—broken, searching, and in need of hope. And I am reminded that discipleship begins with a simple invitation: to follow Jesus, one step at a time.

Following Jesus daily still requires surrender. It means listening to the Holy Spirit, responding in obedience, and trusting God even when the path is not fully clear. It is not about perfection, but instead about faithfulness—about remaining rooted in Christ and allowing him to shape every area of life. My desire is to continue walking with Jesus daily—remaining close to him, being formed by his teachings, and living in a way that reflects his love to those around me.

My story began in brokenness, but by God’s grace, it continues as a life being rebuilt on a firm foundation.

Edmundo Ramos is Lead Pastor at Iglesia Buenas Nuevas in Texas. His teaching and ministry are rooted in a Mennonite perspective, emphasizing discipleship, community, and a life of obedience to Jesus expressed through family, church, and everyday life.